Taking Charge of Our Attitudes
I may be chancing my arm a little at this frantic time of report writing and examination marking, but one of the best things about working at All Saints is the amount of fun we have. Moreover I believe the fact that we have fun, that we delight in each others’ company and take the time to get to know each other is of fundamental importance to the wellbeing of our School. Our capacity to celebrate life and each other is liberating not just for us as a staff but also for the children who we seek to serve on a daily basis. It encourages them to see that even though we take our responsibilities as teachers very seriously indeed, this in no way means that we have to be intensely serious in our approach to our craft. It is always sad when we meet someone who takes themselves too seriously; who fails to recognise that we are all faintly ridiculous at times; that whilst a part of us craves order and predictability there is a rhythm to the universe that every now and then lurches towards the absurd. To be able to laugh together, to sing and dance and learn together, is such a precious gift, and perhaps I am being led towards such reflections after experiencing the delightful end of year celebrations we have enjoyed in recent times. The Middle School celebration nights bristled with energy and then this week we have enjoyed Speech Night, the final assembly for Year 12, the Tunnel of Love and on Thursday night quite the finest School Formal I have ever attended. I can’t wait for the junior School celebration on Tuesday night. They are all such uplifting occasions, and a reminder that whilst we all face challenges occasionally in our daily lives, we must always find the time to celebrate with joy and exuberance. Children are so good at it, which of course explains why working with them is such a blessing.
It is our urgent hope that each of our celebrations reflect in one way or another the sense that life is a magnificent adventure that must be entered into and undertaken with gusto, gratitude and great joy. I believe that the attitude of the staff, their sensitive and committed approach to their work, has a profound influence on the children of All Saints. It inspires them to engage with life in productive and positive ways.
The American evangelist Charles Swindoll writes:
“The longer I live, the more I realize the impact of attitude on life. Attitude, to me, is more important than facts. It is more important than the past, than education, than money, than circumstances, than failure, than successes, than what other people think or say or do. It is more important than appearance, giftedness or skill. It will make or break a company... a church... a home. The remarkable thing is we have a choice everyday regarding the attitude we will embrace for that day. We cannot change our past... we cannot change the fact that people will act in a certain way. We cannot change the inevitable. The only thing we can do is play on the one string we have, and that is our attitude. I am convinced that life is 10% what happens to me and 90% of how I react to it. And so it is with you... we are in charge of our attitudes.”
It seems sound advice to me. We can choose to be overwhelmed, fearful, cynical, angry, disappointed, resentful or we can accept that whatever trials we may face we will not be defeated but rather strengthened and enlightened by them. Our trials develop our character, and once passed, they make our celebrations that much sweeter.
My best wishes to all our families for a Christmas break filled with laughter and love. This has been a spectacular year for our school and I am so grateful to everyone in our community who has played their part in helping us to joyfully flourish and thrive in 2023.
Patrick Wallas
Headmaster