Importance of Partnerships: A Message from the Headmaster
We talk at length about the importance of partnerships at All Saints, and this is no idle rhetoric. As a school, we certainly do not suffer from the illusion that we can care for your children in isolation. Changes of behaviour at home might well be the result of something that has happened at school, and if a child starts playing up in class, there is every chance that the source of their frustration originates beyond the classroom walls. Our success in resolving issues where children seem temporarily out of sorts depends upon the strength of the partnerships that operate within our community. Parents need to trust the School, confident that whatever may have been reported on the home front, the School and its staff have acted in what they believe to be the best interests of their child. In turn, the School needs to accept that we do not always get it right, despite our best intentions, and that we must therefore rely on the parents to provide any additional information or particular circumstances that might help us to better care for their children.
By working together - parents, teachers and students - there are very few issues, however painful they might seem to be at the time, that cannot be resolved. We must trust each other and keep our focus on the best possible outcome for the child. This might not always be what our child wants, but hopefully it will prove to be what he or she needs. We all know that our children need the different outlets of the formality and routine of school life and the relatively relaxed regime that operates at home. How often do we stare open-mouthed at the teacher who tells us our little treasure, who has been an absolute nightmare at home, is a model student in every way? Of course, the corollary can be true too – a child might be an angel at home whilst running their teachers ragged at school.
All of us carry insecurities and frustrations that make us behave in particular ways at particular times. The challenge for teachers and parents is to provide a safe, secure and loving environment for our students and children that is designed to bring out the best in them. They will still let us down at times, and it is then that we must pool our resources to help them get back on track.
The open door policy that operates at All Saints, characterised by our three-way conferences, our parent-teacher evenings and the strength of the relationships that we build here, is an invitation to our parent body to get fully involved in the schooling of their children. We will continue to work on refining and improving the channels of communication between the School and the home, and we ask that parents also do their best to keep us informed of any changes or concerns that are becoming apparent at home.
Working together, we can reassure our students that they have the support they need at crucial moments of anxiety or emotional upheaval to see them through to the brightest possible future. So often our children give us a sense of hope and optimism for the future, lifting our spirits with their exuberance and zest for life. It is thus self-evident that the investment we make as parents and as teachers will be paid back handsomely, as we watch them grow into the fine young adults they are destined to become.
Patrick Wallas
Headmaster