The Truth is...
- …out there.
- …a beautiful thing.
- …stranger than fiction.
- …marching on.
- …only hearsay.
- …rarely pure and never simple (Oscar Wilde).
- …a beautiful and terrible thing and should be treated with great caution (Albus Dumbledore).
- …putting on its shoes while a lie can travel halfway around the world. (Ironically, the truth of this quote’s authorship is disputed).
- …our School Theme for 2023.
We are quickly discovering that the ‘truth’ is in fact ‘all of the above.’
Truth, Faith and Compassion are the key values which keep our All Saints culture strong and vibrantly life-giving; the tenets by which we live out our school experience. This year our focus is on Truth. Our classrooms have pondered and wondered what it might mean. Our Chapels have resounded with interpretations, possibilities and invitations to reflect on what Truth holds for us as a community, and as individuals.
If truth is the absence of falsehood, is it ever okay to tell a lie? (Now think about that one carefully when your excited loved one asks you to comment on their new tattoo.) Is ‘truth’ synonymous with ‘fact’? Where does the truth really lie? These are some of the questions raised as we grapple with this interesting concept which is both complex and paradoxical.
“Mr Wallas, I might have been unkind to her, but I was telling the truth! She does have bad breath and if she brushed her teeth more often she would be more healthy. I was trying to be a good friend. I didn’t want to embarrass her by telling the teacher - she would never have forgiven me. I just told her the truth.”
Quandaries like this are not unusual in our daily lives. Truth is subjective, always holding within it an element of mystery for the simple reason that we cannot entirely own it. Facts are facts. ‘Evidence-based’ has become a buzzword of our contemporary world, and anything which is not supported by science is summarily dismissed as being untrue, lacking in integrity, unworthy, false. (Which makes us wonder about the plethora of conflicting weight-loss plans bombarding social media, all of which claim to be evidence-based.) Where is the truth to be found?
Truth is subjective, holding within it a world of possibilities, only part of which are evidence-based fact. It does, however, insist on the integrity of honesty, and an hilarious Chapel earlier today bore witness to this statement.
Senior School Lay Chaplain Mr Brendan Callaghan asked our students, "be honest, stand up if...
- ...you brushed your teeth this morning."
- ...you have ever sung into an object pretending it was a microphone."
- ...you have ever lied to your parents about where you are going."
- ...you think you are good looking."
- ...you think the person sitting beside you just told a lie."
Our students entered into this sensitively presented Chapel with gusto, much laughter and, we hope, some significant introspection.
My truth might differ from yours, because I hold a different perspective or narrative or opinion or pattern of behaviour. But it is, nevertheless, my honest belief – for now. Because truth is never quite static. Paradoxically, it evolves and grows along with our own maturity.
In my young adult life, I never considered using the phrase "oh my God." What heresy! It was my truth. But that has changed. I have now grown to love the phrase, not simply as some weird form of punctuation, but rather because I actually believe that the Divine Presence is everywhere, and that by uttering the words it somehow brings that Love into my everyday encounters. I prayed a blessing over the cast of Legally Blonde before their first performance and it seemed most appropriate to begin the prayer with "Oh my God!" (Which is the title of the first song in the musical.) They whole-heartedly joined in, and I had the distinct sense that God might have done so too.
Truth is what it is. That which we believe, live by and hold dear. At All Saints, it is collectively embraced in love, kindness, honesty, inclusivity, fullness of life, curiosity and wonder, and course, compassion and faith.
To sum truth up in a commonly known paradox: The second sentence is false. The first sentence is true. (That should keep your brain in the playground for a minute or two.)
And a truth to which I should have paid more attention: Less is more.
Mr Wallas will be back next week, thank God!
Blessings,
Mother Ann McGuinness
School Chaplain