Of Connections and Superglue
TERM 2 BEGINS
What were the first words you uttered, and to whom, on Tuesday morning? How did that shift the day’s rhythm and, in the interplay of conversation, affect those with whom your living space is shared?
Were you kind to yourself as you appeared in the bathroom mirror?
Tuesday was just one day of the 365 gifted to us this year. And yet, it mattered as we interacted with the matter around us, connecting ourselves to water, toothbrushes, potions, clothing, food, the wind, pets, vehicles, traffic and other people. As the magic of Tuesday unfolded a new adventure beckoned us to the experience of life. We are inextricably bound to one another, and to things, whether we like it or not!
Everyone has their own story to tell; All Saints is no different.
Tuesday was a good day! The school awoke to the excited buzz of a community eagerly reconnecting with the familiar comfort of school life. The laughter and happy greetings of a community overshadowed the angst of a few reluctant or new souls, for whom it was a little more difficult to enter the rhythm once again, or for the first time. To find a sense of belonging through connection is so vital to our humanity, to offer that connection is a gift beyond measure.
FIRST UP
A wonderful interview with Brenda Matthews, author of The Last Daughter. A beautiful story of connection, disconnection and reconnection as she courageously offers her story as a proud Wiradjuri woman, taken from her family as a child, raised by another family, and the bridge she built to facilitate her own healing and reconcile her family, without rancour but rather overwhelming kindness in the telling. Connect this story with a Year 11 audience and an English task to write a narrative short story, and connection becomes even more complex. Our lovely students were enthralled and entirely respectful. They bless us every day! We surely influence others in every single thing we say and do. Life is a huge responsibility, and possibly the most difficult thing we have to do; it's best we do it kindly.
An hour or two connecting with computer devices, fellow travellers, the endless to do list which flippantly shifts the eternal now of Eckhart Tolle to a notable quest to reach the interminable due date! Completely engrossed in the task. Ah, such is life! For it does not remain there for long.
SHIFT HAPPENS
The kindness of staff who step in when 'fails' happen, even with the best intentions in the world. Thank you, Mr Francis Nairn for making that connection and taking the class after all (I said a special prayer of thanks for you today).
Tears! Pain! Someone’s life not unfolding quite as planned. Solace, a heavy heart. My ears need to connect with love and compassion. Trust. Deeply moved. Divine connection. And then…
Off to find a keyboard! Conferences need a Eucharist, Eucharists need songs and songs need a keyboard. Thank you Mr Tim Brown for hearing the frustration and making a plan. Connection - yes! Frustration eased, peace restored, Eucharist music and conference saved. Thank you, Mr Brown.
What’s up with your shoe Tim?
Broken – not sure it will last the day. Need superglue.
(Thank God I live close to school and have a husband who insists superglue fixes everything.)
SUPERGLUE MAY HAVE SAVED THE DAY!
The ANZAC poppies arrived in response to an email sent to me asking if I could help him get in touch with our Mother Superior (I have nothing to say about that). Nevertheless, a delightful conversation ensued, which will be left to your imagination. Connections in misconnections.
Little Mates, connecting our Year 12s with our Year 3s. Happy hellos on the walk to Junior School. Year 12s playing an odd game of cat and catch with the little people out on our beautiful grounds. Stealing the soccer ball the ultimate goal – I think? Connections being made in the glee of the game.
WHERE DID THE DAY GO?
Home to work on a costume for Legally Blonde. What fun to connect with Raoul (my sewing machine) at the end of a beautiful day. Family conversation about superglue and passports and whether Mother Superiors still exist. Isn’t love wonderful! Fit dinner in there somewhere and off to the Parents & Friends Association meeting to bond with the beautiful souls who make up this energised and highly productive team.
There was a point in the meeting where I threatened to phone Mr Wallas, who is away at present. The meeting had become completely out of control with fits of laughter, interspersed with hilariously mistaken instructions like:
And, remember, those of you who are modelling; it’s 'nude' for the Mother’s Day Morning Tea!
This should be entirely dis-connected, though was urgently corrected to an instruction regarding the colour of the shoes and make-up to be to be worn. Thank God for that!
The deep ties of loyalty, service and love which connect this incredible group of hard-working parents is one of the greatest blessings of our school. But then, if God created the universe out of chaos, why should the Parents & Friends Association be any different. Truth be told, the reason we have such fun is because it is so well-organised thanks to Sally McMahon and her trusty team.
TUESDAY WAS A VERY GOOD DAY
How was your first day of Term 2?
The connectedness of all things is a concept gaining much popularity in this year of 2023 as it cycles through the centuries in its rhythmic dance, enticing humans to an inquisitive quest for what it might mean for us as we awake to each new day. Perhaps it is the superglue which holds us together, heals our brokenness and makes us strong.
How will you connect tomorrow?
Blessings,
Mother Ann McGuinness
School Chaplain